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Old 01-31-2005, 09:32 PM   #13 (permalink)
mrs good times
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Join Date: Jan 2004
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mrs good times gives some great advice
Default Re: lost a friend because of my lifestyle.

I understand what a difficult situation you are in since it happened to me. My heart still hurts when I see her and I miss her friendship but I know she will never change her views so I do not contact her. When we run into each other, because we have mutual friends, we engage in small talk but thats it. I hope someday she will come around but the best thing I can do is let her make the decision and not try to force the issue. Be patient and hopefully your friend will realize how valuable your relationship is.
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