I have one good friend that I have told about our experiences and one other friend that I have not. The friend I haven't told was the one whom I've been friends with since we were 3 years old. We made a promise as children that we wouldn't keep secrets from one another, and for the longest time we never did! However, years go by and life changes us. We each got married, had kids and eventually grew apart. I only see her once or twice a year now. I almost told her once, but chickened out because she's the type of girl who still has sex with the lights off. VERY reserved. She had a very strictly religious upbringing, and I think it's manifested itself negatively in this respect. This is the only thing I've ever kept from her, but I doubt I'll ever confess. She would be offended and confused. Plus she would be concerned for my emotional and spiritual health. I just can't do that to her. So we keep our dirty confessions for our more liberal friends to enjoy
