Re: How long after getting married? We were married 23 1/2 years before our first encounter which was about 6 months ago. Hubby brought the conversation up about 10 years ago but we had no clue how to venture into it. We raised our kids the started focusing on how to add to our great marriage and wah la......here we are. This board can help with the first time jitters but communication between the both of you is the key to success. Have fun & play safe |