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as i posted sometime ago my husband and i have been swinging for about 9 months now and we love it. but our family dont no about us doing this. only one use to be friend knows, like i said she used to be my friend because after i told her she dont want to be friends any more. we were best friends and my husband has been friends with her husband sence they were babys. the only reason i told her because i needed someone another female to talk to about some feelings i was having. but now i wished i never said anything. my questions are has anyone else lost friends are family for this lifestyle? and should i try and talk to her to be friends are just leave it along like my husband said to do because she said for us not to call her house anymore.