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Old 01-26-2005, 11:03 AM   #11 (permalink)
FLRooster
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Default Re: What if your partner is.....

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Originally Posted by FloridaFlirt
...attracted to one or both of the other couple, but you aren't? Do you go ahead with the playtime?

Rooster (my partner) and I have run into this a few times, and while it seems he had a good time with the female, I end up with a dud in the sack for the male

So...what do I do? Go along with it because it makes him happy?

Thanks in advance....
Let me add my bit....
Of course we have discussed this and I would NEVER want her just to go along with it.
Usually it is a case of being somewhat attracted, and seeing how it goes...but as she says, often the experience falls short of expectations. That also goes for me too, although at least it is always somewhat enjoyable....a guy thing perhaps?
All the responses make sense, and I agree with them. We will have to be more picky I guess in future to ensure we BOTH get enjoyment out of it.

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