The Swingers Board - View Single Post - A Nightmare Scenerio - Getting Pregant While swinging & the choices we'd have to make

findtime · 01-26-2005, 09:23 AM

I think Mrs. Spoomonkey meant she signed a release form for the surgeon not the play couple.

Interestingly enough, hubby and I are trying to get pregnant and have been for four years.

We use condoms but, in addition, we also avoid full swap scenarios (involving me) until after I ovulate. Using the FAM I know exactly when that is (temping, charting, CP, CM etc...). Anyone who's ever had fertility issues knows what I'm talking about. Plus I'm dead regular so it makes it a lot easier.
Just to reiterate, condoms are always used just in case.

For us, it would be extremely tricky. Now, avoiding swaps until after ovulation takes away the guess work but in the unlikely event that we played beforehand and something happened (condom broke etc..), we wouldn't know who the father was..
Abortion would likely be the choice.
It would definitely be the choice if we were certain for whatever reason that hubby wasn't the father.

01-26-2005, 09:23 AM	#15 (permalink)
findtime Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 73 Location: Canada Status: couple	Re: A Nightmare Scenerio I think Mrs. Spoomonkey meant she signed a release form for the surgeon not the play couple. Interestingly enough, hubby and I are trying to get pregnant and have been for four years. We use condoms but, in addition, we also avoid full swap scenarios (involving me) until after I ovulate. Using the FAM I know exactly when that is (temping, charting, CP, CM etc...). Anyone who's ever had fertility issues knows what I'm talking about. Plus I'm dead regular so it makes it a lot easier. Just to reiterate, condoms are always used just in case. For us, it would be extremely tricky. Now, avoiding swaps until after ovulation takes away the guess work but in the unlikely event that we played beforehand and something happened (condom broke etc..), we wouldn't know who the father was.. Abortion would likely be the choice. It would definitely be the choice if we were certain for whatever reason that hubby wasn't the father.