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Truthfully I dont know what we would do...since hubby is fixed..We have talked about it and He says he could never raise someone elses baby, and well I feel the same way. Since I am not stupid about condoms and know they can break or have something wrong with them I took the precaution of going back on the pill!! So I am double protected.

I feel it is wrong to start acting like children when something like that does happen. I havent posted on the other thread since I think ALL involved are acting like imature babies!! Hey it is done ...deal with it. The "you are paying for this kid" and the Not wanting to take responsibility for this baby is so sad. THIS is all 4 of them's problem since they all went into this willingly and knew ( or should hope they would) that condoms can fail. They are only interested in the blame game...and you will pay for this...I feel if you plan on keeping the baby...treat it as your own. Dont put something like that on the shoulders of a child. You know good and well this child will find out about how it was conceived if these games keep up. I think it is soooo cruel to put him/her through that some day. They all need to quit worrying about themselves and think about this baby since they decided to keep it. And if they insist on payment then I think the father should have 50/50 custody. They all need to put this child first and quit worrying about how much money is involved!! If it is that big a deal...take the test find out who's it is...and be grown up about it. The other wife getting pissed about this is her problem. If it is her hubbies then she was there also!! She aproved of the sex and well like I tell my kids...sex can lead to babies if you arent careful enough! sorry enough ranting!!! just my 2 cents for the day