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Originally Posted by intuition897 It really isn't a huge concern for us as I've had my wings clipped and have been having been having sex regularly with Mr. for over two years now without any other form of B.C. and I'm pregnancy free. But... stranger things have happened. So... |
Just for the record Mr Spoo and I are both surgically safe from getting or causing pregnancy . . . but I did have to sign a paper saying I wouldn't sue if I still got pregant
I just posted this because it was something I thought about all day and wondered what would people do.
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Originally Posted by intuition897 I would say (for myself) that we would likely keep it. The conception showed up in OUR family, not the other swingers'. We have two kids, and I don't think I could go through with either an abortion or an adoption knowing that the same could've happened for either of the other two. The idea makes me cringe. To outsiders, it would be business as usual (until of course the baby is born and it's obvious that the father was NOT Mr.... ie: different ethnicity. At this point we'd deal with it when the time came). I don't know if we'd let the other couple know about the pregnancy or not. This could raise some huge issues as far as paternity and custody, which would rip our family apart. Plus they might get the idea that we were looking for support of some kind or that we were looking to blackmail them or something. It's ridiculous, but people are strange that way. |
Another reason I got to thinking about it because on the thread "getting pregnant" they are asking the couple who the husband is the father for child support. I just think that is wrong and ruins way too many lives, when either keeping it and telling no one that it's not yours or having an abortion keeps it between you and your spouse.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. You'll have to give us Mr Intuition's thoughts after you talk to him
Mrs Spoomonkey