 Re: A Nightmare Scenerio
I may be jumping the gun a little as I haven't discussed this at length with Mr. intuition yet. It really isn't a huge concern for us as I've had my wings clipped and have been having been having sex regularly with Mr. for over two years now without any other form of B.C. and I'm pregnancy free. But... stranger things have happened. So...
I would say (for myself) that we would likely keep it. The conception showed up in OUR family, not the other swingers'. We have two kids, and I don't think I could go through with either an abortion or an adoption knowing that the same could've happened for either of the other two. The idea makes me cringe. To outsiders, it would be business as usual (until of course the baby is born and it's obvious that the father was NOT Mr.... ie: different ethnicity. At this point we'd deal with it when the time came). I don't know if we'd let the other couple know about the pregnancy or not. This could raise some huge issues as far as paternity and custody, which would rip our family apart. Plus they might get the idea that we were looking for support of some kind or that we were looking to blackmail them or something. It's ridiculous, but people are strange that way.
As I said I haven't discussed this with Mr. intuition and he may have a completely different take on it. He may not think the idea of raising another man's child is acceptable.
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