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scoobyandme · 01-23-2005, 03:18 PM

With our first mfm fresh in my mind i can tell you that finding the "right" guy will be hard. What you think is the perfect guy may not be right for her. I would suggest looking at a few swingers sites and checking some single guys out. We met with a few guys before we picked the right guy. She will not be comfortable with a guy she doesn't click with. So your springing it on her idea won't work. Communication about this will go a long way. Maybe you want this alot more than she does and maybe she just wants to keep the fantasy alive in her head and not live it. Either way it will be "her" choice and not yours. Good luck!

01-23-2005, 03:18 PM	#13 (permalink)
scoobyandme Active Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 12 Location: Kansas City Status: couple SLS Name:scoobyandme	Re: MFM 3sums With our first mfm fresh in my mind i can tell you that finding the "right" guy will be hard. What you think is the perfect guy may not be right for her. I would suggest looking at a few swingers sites and checking some single guys out. We met with a few guys before we picked the right guy. She will not be comfortable with a guy she doesn't click with. So your springing it on her idea won't work. Communication about this will go a long way. Maybe you want this alot more than she does and maybe she just wants to keep the fantasy alive in her head and not live it. Either way it will be "her" choice and not yours. Good luck!