I really appreciate all the advice. I guess were the type that doesnt really talk about fantsies and what we want because were afraid of what the other would say. If I tell him that I could be interested in this, Im afraid it would lead him to believe hes not good or not satisfying me. Hes never told me any deep fatasies either. I know TALK TALK TALK, its hard when you have kids banging on the door.
Were going to see Larry The Cable Guy on Monday night, so I am hoping to at least put an idea out there of what I want. I dont want to just blurt it out, so I am feeling nervous. U think after 7 years I could tell him anything, but hes so self consious I guess its our age. Im 22 and hes 31. I would appreciate any comments or advice on how to approach the subject so he doesnt get the idea that I am not happy with our sex life. Because it is good, just it would be a different atmosphere. Hes into having sex in public the fear of getting caught, so why wouldnt he get into this lifestyle? HELP Its great to know that there are people out there who can help in situations like this. I will certainly let you know how it goes, if i dont chicken out that is.......