Quote:
|
Originally Posted by JnCC "They all do it. You show me the most beautiful woman in the world, and I'll show you some guy who's tired of fucking her"
Maybe that's what's happening. The guys are just "tired of fucking them."
I don't know of any women who swing without their husbands, but the adult-oriented dating sites and chat rooms are full of married women who are looking for FWB's (I've "routed" a few on some of the vanilla datings sites I've belonged to also). I think this is another one of those areas that stretches the definition of what "swinging" is. To me, it sounds more like an open marriage, with little regard given to who the spouse is with. |
Really, that seems like what vanilla people say about swingers, that we're all tired of fucking our spouses, and don't care who we are with.
My wife has played alone, with my permission, a few times. I'm certainly not tired of fucking her, we had some great sex before and after she went. It wasn't something we jumped into, and we don't consider our marriage open. I had the chance to once, and I'm not sure I'd do it again, but I don't have a problem with her doing it. It just wasn't what I was into doing. I trust her to have her fun, and don't have to worry about it wrecking our marriage.
The wives (and hubbys too) looking for FWB without the knowledge of their spouse aren't swingers, they are cheaters. The two are not the same thing.