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N&G · 01-19-2005, 10:35 AM

We got into the lifestyle to have casual sex, not to be everyone's best friend. We have made many friendships over the years but we played with them first. I suppose some people might consider us to be toward the hardcore side of swinging but I can't see spending a lot of time trying to be someone's friend so I can have sex with them. We can go to a party and have sex with two or three people, some of whom we never met before. There are a limited number of weekends in the month so we do what works for us.

Greg

01-19-2005, 10:35 AM	#10 (permalink)
N&G Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 151 Location: Northern New Jersey Status: Couple	Re: Which came first- the friends or the sex? We got into the lifestyle to have casual sex, not to be everyone's best friend. We have made many friendships over the years but we played with them first. I suppose some people might consider us to be toward the hardcore side of swinging but I can't see spending a lot of time trying to be someone's friend so I can have sex with them. We can go to a party and have sex with two or three people, some of whom we never met before. There are a limited number of weekends in the month so we do what works for us. Greg