Re: Which came first- the friends or the sex?
This is an interesting topic!! As far as we are concerned (we are what we can call newbies i guess) we always needed some friendship in the relationship. We have difficulties to figure out a date where we would play straight away . We are the slow kind anyway and we need a lot of talk! The problem is that (well is that a problem) we've met people we never played with just because we talked too much lol ... I mean we feel like we are too close to go into swinging!!
Another thing we really find difficult to cope with is that when you've been talking for a while about various subjects, it's really difficult to get started!
We are a bit...shy and the transition is difficult for us
However, when it works, I mean when the feeling is there, we experience great games and we think it's the best way not to feel jealous
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