The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Which came first- the friends or the sex?

intuition897 · 01-18-2005, 11:54 PM

We never really made up our minds wether or not we wanted to pursue long-term friendships, but we agreed that we both had to genuinely like the other couple as people. We wouldn't feel attracted to them sexually otherwise. For us, interesting conversation is a significant precursor to other interesting activities facelick.

So which came first? I think for us friends and sex are two separate things running in parallel. Everybody's there for the sex, and if everyone wants to make a 'vanilla' date to just hang out sometime after the fact, that would be really cool too!

01-18-2005, 11:54 PM	#8 (permalink)
intuition897 Canadian, eh? Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 2,633 Location: Kingston, ON Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:intuition897	Re: Which came first- the friends or the sex? We never really made up our minds wether or not we wanted to pursue long-term friendships, but we agreed that we both had to genuinely like the other couple as people. We wouldn't feel attracted to them sexually otherwise. For us, interesting conversation is a significant precursor to other interesting activities facelick. So which came first? I think for us friends and sex are two separate things running in parallel. Everybody's there for the sex, and if everyone wants to make a 'vanilla' date to just hang out sometime after the fact, that would be really cool too!
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