 Re: Which came first- the friends or the sex?
We had no idea what we wanted when we started out. We discussed the pros and cons of approaching it both ways. Did we want to jump in bed knowing little about the couple, say goodbye when we were finished, never to see them again? Or did we want to know the people enough--first--to feel we were going to be jumping in bed with new found friends?
As it turned out, we developed a level of friendship before meeting the first couple we played with. After meeting and playing, our friendship has continued to blossom. It has been great.
Still, we are open to playing with couples who we only have enough in common with to swing with. They don't have to be potential longterm playmates and friends for us to consider them a good match.
I guess you could say, we started out flexible and still are.
LM
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