The Swingers Board - View Single Post - If he won't stay within their boundaries what makes us think he will stay within ours

borrowlend · 01-14-2005, 12:05 PM

Hi,

This is our second post, first reply. I am glad that you are paying attention to possible red flags. It is possible that she was just kidding. If they know how important your boundreis are then I don't see why they would mess up the chances of meeting you guys. The best way to tell is just ask and meet them watch thier body language. We met a couple once (didn't work out) and every time he said he loved her he would look in the oppisite direction and roll his eyes. We quickly saw that as a red flag and was honest with them later.

We have the same rule.....no MF kissing. The couples we play with have no problem. I asked my husband if it would be ok for that to be a rule b/c for me is assocated more with love. Yes, I am one of those....lol. He has been happy and satisfied without it. The other night it actually brought out the wild woman in me. I found myself nibbling on the M's arm and he loved it!

01-14-2005, 12:05 PM	#21 (permalink)
borrowlend Registered Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Georgia	Re: Cold Feet, or Alarms Hi, This is our second post, first reply. I am glad that you are paying attention to possible red flags. It is possible that she was just kidding. If they know how important your boundreis are then I don't see why they would mess up the chances of meeting you guys. The best way to tell is just ask and meet them watch thier body language. We met a couple once (didn't work out) and every time he said he loved her he would look in the oppisite direction and roll his eyes. We quickly saw that as a red flag and was honest with them later. We have the same rule.....no MF kissing. The couples we play with have no problem. I asked my husband if it would be ok for that to be a rule b/c for me is assocated more with love. Yes, I am one of those....lol. He has been happy and satisfied without it. The other night it actually brought out the wild woman in me. I found myself nibbling on the M's arm and he loved it!