Re: Notches in the Bedpost When I try to mentally caluculate who I've slept with (over my entire life, that is), I always manage to forget quite a few people. This selective memory tells me that it's not the quantity that makes me satisfied, but the quality that satisfies me.
As far as swinging is concerned, I keep track of the numbers now. But I think it's normal, this is new territory for us. Once the newness wears off, I'll be less inclined to keep track.
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The art of life lies in taking pleasures as they pass, and the keenest pleasures are not intellectual, nor are they always moral.
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