Findtime, your thorough conveyance of your particular situation has us just about on the same page, which indiates respect and trust; thanks for clarifying. Regarding the original post though, I say let 'em meet face to face (all 4 eventually) to read the body language on whether the other couple has the necessary respect for them which will result in a comfortable, satisfying encounter. In the LS no means no, and if someone is uncomfortable, JUST SAY NO THANK YOU.
