A lot of good advice here so far, as most of us have found, attractivness is in the eye of the beholder. Everybody has their preferences in looks and body type and I am always surprised that it isn't always the "model" types that are most sought out. As someone said before attitude has much more effect on how attractive you are to others than looks.
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Originally Posted by JulieNTom The positive side effect is that we started living a healthier lifestyle again, working out etc.
But is this the right motivation for swinging? |
I don't know if it is the right motivation but I can say that this isn't unusual. My wife and I have experianced the same thing, we have become much more conscious of our appearance and have lost those extra pounds and tend to put more effort into staying in shape than we did before we started swinging. So I look at it as just a little bonus to being in the lifestyle, and maybe I'll even live longer.
Swinging - Lots of fun, and its good for you too.