 Re: to ugly
Everyone has things they don't like about themselves and we are more likely to notice those things about ourselves than others will notice. The biggest problem is that the more you allow those little things to get to you and affect your self-esteem the more it will affect your personality. If you don't feel good about yourself that will transfer to your actions and to how others treat you. When you feel attractive then others see you that way.
The best thing I can suggest is to take some time and first go through ads, not just ones near you but in general and look at the pictures. You'll quickly see that most swingers are far from perfect and we all have things that no one can see until we take our clothes off... and once the clothes come off how many of us are really paying attention to someone's scars or stretch marks... typically there are other things on our minds.
From there, take a trip to your local off-premise club and take a look around, worst case you'll feel quite normal in looks... best case you'll look around and say "what the hell were we worried about?".
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