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JulieNTom · 01-09-2005, 09:19 PM

Hi Folks,

Julie and I are started talking about swinging this year. But we are not really ready for it yet I guess. The wired thing is that jealousy is – even if we talk about it too – not our main concern. We – and Julie more than I – do both have doubts about not being attractive enough any more. We may be still kind of good looking and we work out 3 times a week now and we are both not heavily overweight (35y6f/240pd 29y5.8f/180pd) but the more we talk about swinging the more we notice stuff that we don’t like, my belly her cellulites. This is all stuff that does not bother us if we make love but showing of like that for others? We both would – I guess - feel a lot easier to do it if we would feel completely comfortable with our bodies.

Right now we are in a mode, were we are postponing it until “we are good-looking again”. The positive side effect is that we started living a healthier lifestyle again, working out etc.
But is this the right motivation for swinging?

Should we stay on it? What kind of activity should we look at first? Julie and I are both same sex curious and would love to travel to one of those Caribbean Resorts.

01-09-2005, 09:19 PM	#1 (permalink)
JulieNTom Registered Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 6 Location: SLC	Are we attractive enough to swing? Hi Folks, Julie and I are started talking about swinging this year. But we are not really ready for it yet I guess. The wired thing is that jealousy is – even if we talk about it too – not our main concern. We – and Julie more than I – do both have doubts about not being attractive enough any more. We may be still kind of good looking and we work out 3 times a week now and we are both not heavily overweight (35y6f/240pd 29y5.8f/180pd) but the more we talk about swinging the more we notice stuff that we don’t like, my belly her cellulites. This is all stuff that does not bother us if we make love but showing of like that for others? We both would – I guess - feel a lot easier to do it if we would feel completely comfortable with our bodies. Right now we are in a mode, were we are postponing it until “we are good-looking again”. The positive side effect is that we started living a healthier lifestyle again, working out etc. But is this the right motivation for swinging? Should we stay on it? What kind of activity should we look at first? Julie and I are both same sex curious and would love to travel to one of those Caribbean Resorts.