[nashcpl123]

I won't be offering my opinion in this reply, so much as relating our experience with playing alone. We began our swinging career by meeting just couples and everything went swimmingly with that. Neither of us was opposed to playing alone, should the right set of circumstances present themselves...but they did not early on. In September, one of our very good friends had to leave town for a month for business. She hated to leave her s/o alone for that time without anyone to play with, so my wife and I talked about it and we agreed that she would give playing alone with him a try. It went fine and the two of them had fun, but she decided it was not as enjoyable as playing as a couple. However, she still gave me permission to try it should I ever want to. That time came just before this Christmas. A different couple whom we know well had a special request. The hubby in that couple wanted to give his wife a threesome (mfm) as a sort of 'present'. They had never done that before and they asked me to participate. I did so, and enjoyed myself very much...but it was lacking. So, long story not so short...we have decided to just stick with playing together and not play alone anymore. Just one couple's experiences.