[northindycpl]

This is my favorite topic to dicuss with husbands! Mr. Indy is a PRO when it comes to this!

As I have matured, my weight has fluctuated continuously. I have times where I feel incredibly hot and times when I feel incredbly blimb like- At all times, Mr. Indy raves to me, and others about how beautifu, sexy and perfect I am. It never fails for him to just 'know' when I need that compliment, and he dishes them out in droves!

here are some other great tips that I think are always perfect:

-Start cooking her meals that are healthy. There are tons and tons of websites that offer easy, healthy menus with stuff you probably have in your pantry. Check foodtv.com. Weightwatchers.com also has a great website that you can join for about $1 a week, that is filled with calculators and menus- it's awesome too. Finally- the Aphrodite cookbook is an absolute must! It is filled with Sensual food and menus designed especially for lovers. the 2 of you could have great fun in the kitchenas you prepared healthy food that turns her on!
- Start making suggestions after dinner- instead of watching TV, tell her you want to go for a walk. You want to talk to her under the stars, without the nuisances of home.
-Go sledding in the moonlight, or skinny dipping (whatever the weather)
-Go to the mall with her- and walk, window shopping. Just be sure you end up at her favorite store. (that is my favorite)
-Take her dancing, or sign up for ball-room dance lessons, something she has never done before.
-Finally, have sex with her, often. Everyday if she wants. It may sound funny, but sex, especially in the morning or mid-day, increases your metabolism, and the endorphins released at orgasm, block your hunger. And if you must snack between marathon sessions, prepare grapes, cheese, apples slices, whatever is healthy and sensuous around the house.

The point is to be active without pushing her to exercise. If you are active with her, doing things that she likes and that are romantic she will do better. If you are doing it, because you want to be with her... you will always be her hero! And the best part of all of these tricks? Never mention why you are doing these things...just do them.