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Old 01-06-2005, 08:35 PM   #9 (permalink)
jcbicouple
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Default Re: Cold Feet, or Alarms

You may want to see if they will meet you together so you can see how they interact with each other. We have told a few couples "No" simply because they obviously weren't in this for each other. Also, If you do meet her alone: Ask her about the comment and what she meant. Maybe it wasn't a big deal, but if your red flags went up, you need to clear the air. If the flags are still up after your meeting, just tell them "Sorry, but we don't think we're really compatible." and don't let them pressure you into anything. Good luck!
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