 Re: Cold Feet, or Alarms
I can see your trepidation in this matter. But I think you really are putting too much thought into it at this point. Meet her for lunch and get to know her in person. Just because you have lunch doesn't mean you have to have sex with them. If you aren't compatible, you aren't compatible. Period. No hard feelings.
We have met some really good people online. We chatted via email or instant messenger for a week or two, then met for drinks or dinner and took it from there. There are more people we haven't "clicked" with than those we have, but they are still good acquaintances that we seek out at parties to hang with.
So don't read too much into her comment until you actually get to know her (and him). Don't over-analyze it. You are taking something that is supposed to be fun and making it into work.
Mr. WS
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