[starlinn]

I have a problem. Being new to this lifestyle, I know that I am treading in very shallow water when meeting another couple. My husband and I have set our limits, and we really do want to stick with them. I am up front with other couples that I am talking to about those boundries. I met a couple online, and We have been talking with them alot. I have agreed to have lunch with the wife. Just to meet up and talk. I talked to her on the phone this morning to make last minute plans and get directions, I made the comment again about our boundries, and she makes the comment "He (being her husband) tends to go outside our boundries all the time"
Now, it kind of stunned me when she said that, and I made a hasty good-by because I didn't know what to say. After getting off the phone with her, I sat here and thought about it, and wondered what she meant. My thought at this time, and the reason that I am posting this on the board, is, that if he crosses the boundries that they set, what makes us think that he will not have consideration for ours. I wonder too, now that my hopes are dashed, how do I call her back and tell her that I am not interested in meeting her for lunch? Am I reading to much into her comment, trying to get out of this. I can't see that. I was very excited!
Also, are there success stories out there of meeting a couple online? Now I am leary about it (Except the people on this board are wonderful!)
I would love to go to a club and meet up, but all the clubs are 2 hours away from me, so it isn't practical. Any ideas please.
Thanks