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Originally Posted by tracy1878 Hubby and I went to our first swing club over the weekend and had a wonderful time. My question is how do you approach someone about having sex? Hubby and I have said that we will swing separately at the same party/location, but I'm a little shy about approaching a man. I'm a BBW, so I'm sure it comes cause of that, but I know that there were several men interested, but I just didn't have the guts to go and do it. Any suggestions?  |
Hey Tracy,
I have to agree with some of the others, just keep moving around slowly, make plenty of direct eye contact -of course, a smile and a wink will also help !
Most times just a big Hello, and my name is Tracy, and What would you like to be called ?
If you were like my ex-G.F. Carolyn a.k.a. "Nymph" she would go hang at the pool tables, ask a guy or two if they had seen her B.F. walk thru. That usually worked, to get the conversation started, then if the guy was a little shy, she would just lightly rub his crouch. If the guy is interested that will open all conversation that is needed.
Or since she was the love lots of men type, she would say to those same men, she heard there was a Gang Bang getting ready to start in the open room, and they should grab their buddies and go get some.
Of course then she would go up to the group room , undress and get ready for the herd of men that would soon be showing up.
If you are really the shy type, you can usually go to the video room sit down on a sofa, more times then not there will be a guy who is also a little shy doing the same thing