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SecretAgent69 · 01-04-2005, 04:21 PM

Thank you all for the good tips so far, definitely has given me direction.

Ok... I do think I might need to clarify though what I am talking about as far as technique. Both us and the other couple initially stipulated wanted to be long term, and that passion, not fucking, was the priority. Im getting fucked lol. He can do any position... but this otherwise intelligent man literally becomes jello between the ears in the bedroom. He nearly seems catatonic to me???? I dont know.. confused... grrrr.. wait.. ok .. it is like from the very first time together, no matter how much he SAID he was looking forward to it, or said after how great it was and wanted to do it again... DURING he seemed BORED... ??? Yet (not to brag too much) I know I am very active in bed, very vocal, a squirter which totally turns him on, just some good things working for me there... but yes, like he is bored.

maybe I am looking for more than there is supposed to be... like that story we are discussing in this thread... that is what I am after. Not necessarily so perfect (after all it is a story someone took time to write, edit, etc) but along those lines... exploration, love of the moment, excitement over curves, dips, etc... is that just fantasy? Are there male swingers out there like that???

01-04-2005, 04:21 PM	#13 (permalink)
SecretAgent69 Registered Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 8 Location: Iowa	Re: How to convince Mr Big that his brain is more important Thank you all for the good tips so far, definitely has given me direction. Ok... I do think I might need to clarify though what I am talking about as far as technique. Both us and the other couple initially stipulated wanted to be long term, and that passion, not fucking, was the priority. Im getting fucked lol. He can do any position... but this otherwise intelligent man literally becomes jello between the ears in the bedroom. He nearly seems catatonic to me???? I dont know.. confused... grrrr.. wait.. ok .. it is like from the very first time together, no matter how much he SAID he was looking forward to it, or said after how great it was and wanted to do it again... DURING he seemed BORED... ??? Yet (not to brag too much) I know I am very active in bed, very vocal, a squirter which totally turns him on, just some good things working for me there... but yes, like he is bored. maybe I am looking for more than there is supposed to be... like that story we are discussing in this thread... that is what I am after. Not necessarily so perfect (after all it is a story someone took time to write, edit, etc) but along those lines... exploration, love of the moment, excitement over curves, dips, etc... is that just fantasy? Are there male swingers out there like that???