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Originally Posted by Denver2some
I guess I had the opposite reaction to the story than most. I definitely thought it was a hot fantasy story, but come on ... would anybody put up with that much, "You aren't doing the right thing!" feedback ???  In reality ... I think the guy in the story would have walked, if approached that assertively (and negatively.) |
I felt this way too. No guy--especially
that guy--would put up with that much negative coaching. It was a great story to read, very sexy to me, and can teach swingers a lot about technique, but I don't see it as being a realistic way to approach a jerk.
The story is best for the non-jerks who are looking to improve their lovemaking and will appreciate the chuckle this story brings.
I don't think Mr Big would appreciate you handing him this story because you'd be telling him you equate him to the "jerk." No man is going to like to hear that.
If Mr Big is worth helping along, your idea of giving him some guidance when it won't embarrass him in front of others sounds best. What you say to his wife will be passed on to him, and she may not communicate the message in the way you'd hope, so I'd not go that direction.
I'd communicate directly to Mr Big.
Good luck and let us know how things go.
LM