The Swingers Board - View Single Post - How to convince Mr Big that his brain is more important

Denver2some · 01-04-2005, 11:23 AM

If you word it carefully, you can make it about your desires rather than his performance. After all, we're all unique ... so why not make an occasional "special request?" for what you like? Most guys I know like a little direction when they are with a new partner.

I would try saying things like:

"Ooh, that is really nice! But I get the best orgasms when someone does this ..." (and show him)

"Can I tell you something I've been wanting a playmate to do for me?" (and whisper it to him)

01-04-2005, 11:23 AM	#2 (permalink)
Denver2some Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 261 Location: Denver, CO	Re: How to convince Mr Big that his brain is more important If you word it carefully, you can make it about your desires rather than his performance. After all, we're all unique ... so why not make an occasional "special request?" for what you like? Most guys I know like a little direction when they are with a new partner. I would try saying things like: "Ooh, that is really nice! But I get the best orgasms when someone does this ..." (and show him) "Can I tell you something I've been wanting a playmate to do for me?" (and whisper it to him)