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SecretAgent69 · 01-04-2005, 10:58 AM

Hey out there..

I am incognito here as a very special couple we like may browse through here from time to time, and we would hate to upset them by something we post. But I have a question hopefully someone can help me with.

The Mr of the other couple is well endowed... something which for me is low on the list of important things in bed. However, after several excursions together I am getting the feeling that he believes his dick size is all that matters. He talks smooth on the phone, dances smooth on the floor... but is straight up in/out in bed. He is not a cocky guy, by any means... but he seems to have a lot of confidence in his dick and his lovemaking... which I consider to be on the level of hmmm a 25 year old male instead of the 40 year old he almost is.

We really like this couple and want to stay with them. They us as well.. yet I am not necessarily looking forward to being with him. How can I gently teach this guy some techniques without blowing his self esteem?

thanks!

01-04-2005, 10:58 AM	#1 (permalink)
SecretAgent69 Registered Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 8 Location: Iowa	How to convince Mr Big that his brain is more important Hey out there.. I am incognito here as a very special couple we like may browse through here from time to time, and we would hate to upset them by something we post. But I have a question hopefully someone can help me with. The Mr of the other couple is well endowed... something which for me is low on the list of important things in bed. However, after several excursions together I am getting the feeling that he believes his dick size is all that matters. He talks smooth on the phone, dances smooth on the floor... but is straight up in/out in bed. He is not a cocky guy, by any means... but he seems to have a lot of confidence in his dick and his lovemaking... which I consider to be on the level of hmmm a 25 year old male instead of the 40 year old he almost is. We really like this couple and want to stay with them. They us as well.. yet I am not necessarily looking forward to being with him. How can I gently teach this guy some techniques without blowing his self esteem? thanks!