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Old 01-03-2005, 10:45 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Default Re: 2 things that bother me... not sure what to do

I'm sorry but sounds like your trying to take on for the team in a repeat situation with this couple. The smell aside it is never sexy to have to listen to someone talk about their weight or health issue for that matter. If she's that insecure maybe she shouldn't be in the lifestyle. I'd say break it off. It is hard to get four people to click but you can come close to it than this. Also, don't change your not playing separate rule for this. We don't change our rules especially this one for anybody. Our rules are for us, made and agreed upon by both of us to enjoy the lifestyle together . . . don't change it.

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