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***JustAskJulie*** · 01-03-2005, 05:14 PM

I think it's fine to take one for the team once in a while, but over the long-haul it can do more damage than good. Overall, this woman doesn't appeal to you. I assume you've talked to your wife about all of this - you have haven't you? - and she knows how you feel. If not, then you should. Perhaps your wife can talk to the lady for you.

Regarding the odor issue you might try taking her into the shower before sex, if you want to keep seeing her. Regarding her weight comments, I think you can be upfront with her about that and just flat out say "you look fine would you please stop making those comments, they are a real turn off - unlike you".

I just looked up and read northindy's post as I was typing mine and realize I basically just said exactly the same thing they did...lol.

01-03-2005, 05:14 PM	#5 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: 2 things that bother me... not sure what to do I think it's fine to take one for the team once in a while, but over the long-haul it can do more damage than good. Overall, this woman doesn't appeal to you. I assume you've talked to your wife about all of this - you have haven't you? - and she knows how you feel. If not, then you should. Perhaps your wife can talk to the lady for you. Regarding the odor issue you might try taking her into the shower before sex, if you want to keep seeing her. Regarding her weight comments, I think you can be upfront with her about that and just flat out say "you look fine would you please stop making those comments, they are a real turn off - unlike you". I just looked up and read northindy's post as I was typing mine and realize I basically just said exactly the same thing they did...lol.