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Old 01-02-2005, 12:01 PM   #13 (permalink)
northindycpl
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Default Re: How do you approach someone at a party?

Please don't flame me on this one.. but here goes...

My feeling is that you put into it what you get out of it. I am really pretty comfortable at a club, and I try to be chatty with many people. But it isn't my job to be cruise director. If there is a couple just sitting there, I may say a polite 'hi' but I would probably move on if there isn't something drawing me into conversation with them.

If you aren't even a little bit assertive with your clothes on, how assertive will you be with them off?

As a fellow 'voluptous' woman, I do have limits, but I do not want to play with those ashamed or uncomfortable with their bodies.
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