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VicnGina · 12-31-2004, 05:37 PM

I just wanted to get my 2 cents in on this. I personally have been past up by women afraid to ask, invite or just grab a hand full at the club we go to here in Ft. Wayne. Speaking as a guy for any others out there( BBW or Not) if you see a guy you want to party with and you are not sure how he will reply. You can A: ask him to dance or start up some form of conversation with him. 2: Try the old buy him a drink bit( which at most clubs means you make him a drink and deliver it to him). And then: my personal favorite, Strike up a conversation with the spouse or significant other and ask her what she thinks would be the best way to go about it. BTW take the advice. A good friend of ours passed up her chance by not listening to what my wife had to say. It seems to me ... in club atmospheres ... that the men look to be approached by the women. I know I love for women to approach me. I personally don't mind if a woman walks up, invites herself to sit down and tells me what's on her mind.

12-31-2004, 05:37 PM	#10 (permalink)
VicnGina Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 1 Location: Ft. Wayne, In. Status: couple	Re: How do you approach someone at a party? I just wanted to get my 2 cents in on this. I personally have been past up by women afraid to ask, invite or just grab a hand full at the club we go to here in Ft. Wayne. Speaking as a guy for any others out there( BBW or Not) if you see a guy you want to party with and you are not sure how he will reply. You can A: ask him to dance or start up some form of conversation with him. 2: Try the old buy him a drink bit( which at most clubs means you make him a drink and deliver it to him). And then: my personal favorite, Strike up a conversation with the spouse or significant other and ask her what she thinks would be the best way to go about it. BTW take the advice. A good friend of ours passed up her chance by not listening to what my wife had to say. It seems to me ... in club atmospheres ... that the men look to be approached by the women. I know I love for women to approach me. I personally don't mind if a woman walks up, invites herself to sit down and tells me what's on her mind.