L&D,
First I'd like to state the fact that by no means I am an authority on the subject. Hell I'm still trying to get my GF to open up to the idea of discussing it outside of the bedroom (she only talks about it during sex), but regardless I have my opinion so I'm going to share it.
I believe things should be done in baby steps. First introduce the idea of MFM through a video, it should not be too difficult since she is already curious about swinging. Once she is comfortable with that idea (maybe even after you have actually done a MFM) introduce the MMF fantasy, again maybe through a video and just watch her reaction and take it from there.
Too much information at once may freak her out. Leave her time for her own sexuality to open up to the idea. Maybe even to the point that she comes to that conclusion without you even stating it (nor making it obvious), basically your just leading the way and giving her time to actually fantisize about it.
R
[ 08-09-2002, 05:29 PM: Message edited by: R&J ] |