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Originally Posted by SnozzberryBlu One question tho... alcohol... now, in our experiences together, alcohol has always been an enhancer, never the opposite. In fact, the major side effect for him is a nearly permanent hardon... takes forever for him to come. I know this is quite different from many other's experiences, so my thoughts were that he would actually have a few drinks before we even left the house (it takes a LOT for him to get buzzed).
So... here is the question... if this works for us when we are alone, is there any reason it wouldn't with another couple? Any thoughts on that out there? |
Alcohol will probably have the same effect either way. From what you've said above, alcohol probably isn't the culprit here. I'd agree with the others and say it's being nervous in a new environment. Many report taking Viagra a few times gets them over the "hump" ... and then they no longer need the extra insurance. Or, if he is leery of taking Viagra again, you could try swapping back temporarily so your husband can get a "jumpstart" from you (sometimes it just takes the special touch of your spouse.)
I wouldn't recommend more than a couple of drinks overall. If alcohol makes it "forever" for your husband to come that may not be a good thing. It can throw the swap off-balance if he goes on forever (not to mention causing the other woman to feel sore.) Surrender
Also, alcohol in excess can impair motor skills, communication skills, judgment, ... and memory afterwards. All of which are very good to have in top form for swinging.