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Old 12-29-2004, 03:30 PM   #14 (permalink)
CB_n_Red
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Default Re: Erection problems, emotional issues, help!

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Originally Posted by SnozzberryBlu
One question tho... alcohol... now, in our experiences together, alcohol has always been an enhancer, never the opposite. In fact, the major side effect for him is a nearly permanent hardon... takes forever for him to come. I know this is quite different from many other's experiences, so my thoughts were that he would actually have a few drinks before we even left the house (it takes a LOT for him to get buzzed).
It works like that for me, alcohol in moderation definitely helps but it also causes me the same problem "getting there". The difficulty coming can be a problem for some partners. Fortunately for us it isn't a problem for the female half of the couple we usually play with. She is very understanding of that, and takes full advantage of the other

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Originally Posted by SnozzberryBlu
So... here is the question... if this works for us when we are alone, is there any reason it wouldn't with another couple? Any thoughts on that out there?
No reason why it shouldn't work in a similar fashion, assuming no other issues. After all, alcohol is (medically) a depressant. This includes depressing (= lowering) inhibitions, which may be part of the cause of the problem. It shouldn't hurt to try anyway, though I wouldn't recommend overdoing the booze!

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