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WesternSwing · 12-23-2004, 03:02 PM

I understand what you are saying. I also had feelings of something being taken away from me for the first couple times we swung with others. It was "our" special thing and now we were sharing it with others. I didn't even know I'd feel that way. But I know it had to do with my first wife cheating on me with a couple of men and leaving me for one of them. In a sense the exclusivity between us was taken away, but like intuition897 said, other areas of our marriage got so much better that it filled in any emotional void I felt because of it. Our communication is better, we truly know how and why we love eachother. We are closer now then ever.

Mr. WS

12-23-2004, 03:02 PM	#9 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Dealing with feelings I understand what you are saying. I also had feelings of something being taken away from me for the first couple times we swung with others. It was "our" special thing and now we were sharing it with others. I didn't even know I'd feel that way. But I know it had to do with my first wife cheating on me with a couple of men and leaving me for one of them. In a sense the exclusivity between us was taken away, but like intuition897 said, other areas of our marriage got so much better that it filled in any emotional void I felt because of it. Our communication is better, we truly know how and why we love eachother. We are closer now then ever. Mr. WS
	__________________ "Sex is something you do, sexuality is something you are." ~ Anna Freud Last edited by WesternSwing; 12-23-2004 at 04:52 PM.