[linda3835]

All good advice so far, but I would like to add mine. I also love to watch my wife in threesomes. It is very excillerating sexy and we have the hottest sex afterwards. But, here is what works for us. I told her, "I would share her sexually, but I would never share her emotionally. I told her her emotions and love belong to me and mine to her." It seems to have worked for us over these many years of being in the lifestyle, but I also assure her daily of my "Love" for her. Our love has grown stronger than it was when we first met and married. It is never a chore for me to tell her how much I love her and how much her love means to me. We do participate in foursomes as well, buit what we enjoy the most, is the friends we make in the lifestyle. We find them to be more honest than non-lifestyle friends, as non-lifestyle friends at work, at a night club, at house parties, will try and hit on your wife and try to get her to do something illicit behind your back. At least in the lifestyle, everything is up front and in the open. It is the "dishonesty" taht breaks up relationships and marriages, not the actual idea and happening that you can find someonelse physically attractive, to take it beyond fantasie and into reality. Maybe she feels you may want to party also. Assure her for now you would only like to watch her with other men. You were there, did she really enjoy the sex? Only you can tell and if she did, assure her there is nothing wrong with her enjoying it, as it brought enjoyment to you as well and was the sexiest experience she could have given the two of you. Like the others, I would not push her, but let her make up her own mind if she wants to continue or not. I hope she does, as it will open the wonderful doors of the lifestyle that will simply add another dimension to your relationship. You must assure her daily of your love for her. Once she feels comfort in this, then she may agree to 3 somes or moresomes.
Happy Holidays and Good Luck