The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Wanting to reassure my wife - she doesn't think she wants to continue swinging

disqreetcouple · 12-21-2004, 10:03 AM

I'm no expert by any means. My wife and I talk constantly when it comes to comfort zones. Maybe that particular situation is not comfortable to her. Have you asked her what is comfortable to her? What are her fantasies? Is there anything else she would like to play out? If she doesn't want to play anything else out and doesn't really have any fantasies that she wants to act out, then yes let it go and wait for her to come back to the topic.

12-21-2004, 10:03 AM	#8 (permalink)
disqreetcouple Active Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 30 Location: Illinois	Re: Wanting to reassure my wife I'm no expert by any means. My wife and I talk constantly when it comes to comfort zones. Maybe that particular situation is not comfortable to her. Have you asked her what is comfortable to her? What are her fantasies? Is there anything else she would like to play out? If she doesn't want to play anything else out and doesn't really have any fantasies that she wants to act out, then yes let it go and wait for her to come back to the topic.