 Re: Wanting to reassure my wife
Outside of just dropping the subject (which may be the best solution) it may help to try and understand why your wife is so resistent. She said it felt like cheating - maybe you should explore that with her. Is there a situation that wouldn't feel like cheating? When did the feeling hit her - before, after, during? Is the swinging kicking up some old, unresolved issues from the past? One thing we've found is that starting out in this lifestyle brought up a ton of emotional issues that we both had to deal with in order to be able to really have fun with it. It may be that your wife simply can't get past the stigma of having a cock in her that does not belong to her husband - if that's the case, she's probably not right for the life. But it may be something deeper, and talking it through could eventually bring you both closer and allow her to move past it and enjoy something she seemed to like the first time.
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