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NotsoNew · 12-20-2004, 01:20 AM

While we would like to have a friendship first, this is not what drives us. But we are not into one night stands.

We have been lucky enough to develop some great friendships in the lifestyle. While some folks will disagree, we like to have some sort of connection before we play...not often do we play at the first meeting.

But for long term friendships, these tend to happen when you are not looking for it. But I love the friendships that we have developed from the lifestyle. They truely are on a different level - where else can you talk about your fantasies and have them fulfilled? Best of both worlds.

12-20-2004, 01:20 AM	#14 (permalink)
NotsoNew Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 392 Location: MD Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:newbies123	Re: Clicking versus real friendship While we would like to have a friendship first, this is not what drives us. But we are not into one night stands. We have been lucky enough to develop some great friendships in the lifestyle. While some folks will disagree, we like to have some sort of connection before we play...not often do we play at the first meeting. But for long term friendships, these tend to happen when you are not looking for it. But I love the friendships that we have developed from the lifestyle. They truely are on a different level - where else can you talk about your fantasies and have them fulfilled? Best of both worlds.