Intuition,
Thank you for the reply. In one post you addressed every question I had. Even the ones I couldn't remember to ask. In the last couple of days we have talked about it. Funny how in the middle of the day how a topic like this can carry a different tone. In the evening, relaxed with a glass of wine things are always a little more easy going. Any way...I sat her down and told her about the board and everyone's post. I explained the more I thought about it the more I really wanted to make sure we were ready for such an adventure. So I proposed this....several times a week we both bring something different while we are together. Meaning something new to the sexual experience. Nothing like the next door neighbor with her but something she might have been uncomfortable with in the past because it was not the norm, seemed out of place for a good girl etc. I would do the same. Like we were younger. The difference this time around (emph,
many years later) is that we both are a lot mature, we are stronger than ever before and she is interested in something like this. In the past she wasn't. She wasn't in regards to another partner. Work up to what ever comes next. If another partner was it then so be it.
My point is I want to explore every possibility with her,but first just with her. I want us to be comfortable with what ever happens next and we we completely have an understanding of all of our limits what ever they may be then we can move forward. Seem a little conservative? Maybe. Any way I look at it is a big step in what every direction it may go. While we have fun with one another I want us to completely get away from routine and explore like we did when we were younger. Once this is done then I think she and I would be better equipped to go in to something like this. Someone please tell me if this makes any sense or am I just over analyzing it to much?