Re: swinging question!
There are some very interesting observations in this thread. We are inclined to agree with Biloxi Couple. While most swingers will say in public (or online) that they always insist on condom use, few swingers actually seem to do so at clubs, parties or private meetings (at least the ones we've attended, which may be regional as Julie suggested). It's "politically correct" to advocate condom use, but it seems like there is a silent majority among us who will go bareback at least occasionally.
We have also noticed a pattern similar to what Good Times has noticed. A lot of newbies will start out insisting on condoms, but will relax that rule as they become more experienced and lose some of their initial fear of potential STDs (assuming they stay in the lifestyle for a few years). Also, many older swingers will start losing the condoms once they lose their fear of possible pregnancy.
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