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***JustAskJulie*** · 12-13-2004, 10:31 PM

It seems that there is and always has been two camps of swingers, and a few that work with both camps....

those who believe in friendships and those who are just out to get laid (and like I said a few people who overlap both).

Yes it is possible to develop real friendships with those you swing with, but it is difficult. I think the key (and the hard part) is making sure that you develop the friendship first.

Think of it like dating. When you gave it up on the first (or even the second date) the relationships tended to be much more about sex... but when you held out for a while and really got to know each other you ended up with a much deeper relationship. Of course there are exceptions to everything.

12-13-2004, 10:31 PM	#13 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Clicking versus real friendship It seems that there is and always has been two camps of swingers, and a few that work with both camps.... those who believe in friendships and those who are just out to get laid (and like I said a few people who overlap both). Yes it is possible to develop real friendships with those you swing with, but it is difficult. I think the key (and the hard part) is making sure that you develop the friendship first. Think of it like dating. When you gave it up on the first (or even the second date) the relationships tended to be much more about sex... but when you held out for a while and really got to know each other you ended up with a much deeper relationship. Of course there are exceptions to everything.