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Old 12-10-2004, 04:58 PM   #14 (permalink)
intuition897
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Welcome to the board markholly.

Don't sweat it. It's the same as a woman worrying that her husband will leave her once he's had a taste of a perkier, firmer... younger... piece of ass. After it's happened, you realize that it's nowhere near as horrible as you've built it up in your mind to be. She's not just a piece of ass, but a real live person who, if you've been adequately picky, is respectful of your relationship with your husband. Ok, so maybe she's got an absolutely perfect body - and maybe he's got a really huge cock - but you realize that your husband (or in your case, your wife) is harboring no feelings of longing other than to get you home and screw your brains out because he's just so excited over the whole experience. It's just fantasy. If she realizes that she really enjoyed the experience and wants to try it again, why not? Or you can surprise her with a monster sized dildo for her birthday or something; Mr. intuition did that. It only comes out to play very infrequently however as "sometimes big CAN be too big " holds true. We haven't tried a MFM yet, but it's in the works. I know he'd love to watch me "try to make the best of a big one." lol
The bottom line is that I have NO complaints whatsoever about Mr. intuition's 'package' and about his ability to satisfy me. I agree with Mr. intuition's feelings about other people being more attractive than our own spouses: in order to hold our sexual attention, the other person NEEDS to be very attractive. We don't share love or deep intimacy with them, so they need to have something else that catches the eye and gets the pulse racing. And part of the fun is in experiencing differences between our own partner and someone else. It only accentuates the value of what we have together. My advice? Relax and enjoy the fantasy that your wife's willing to share with you.
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