[EvilMJ]

My hubby and I swing with my best friend and her husband. We have managed to make it work with the firm understanding that friendship comes first and if the swinging ever threatens that it just stops, no explainations needed.

We do lots of vanilla stuff together and have remain very good friends. I think this stems from the fact that my friend and I have been participating in 'swingerish' long before we ever heard the term swinger. so we were comfortable with each other and didn't have the issues that some people do.