One of the positives in this lifestyle is how it helps self-esteem...
One of the negatives is how it can hurt self-esteem...
When you guys have things happen - as silly as they may be - that kind of get in deep and bug you quite a bit - how do you deal with it?
We recently had a situation where I was really rejected pretty coldly and it sort of bugged me. I honestly am not used to that - not trying to be cocky or anything, but we tend to connect with the right people I guess. We've had people kindly say "no" which we understand - no chemistry, no play, no problem... But we had all actually gotten to a room, played a bit and then it turned into a "reject the monkey" fest...
This was a couple of weeks ago and it still kind of eats at me - and I wish I could turn it off...
Any suggestions?
Any encouragement?
I know I'm not perfect, but seriously, couldn't she have said so before we all bothered to go upstairs and get naked?
Maybe she's just scared of purple...
I hesitate to post this because it gives folks a chance to take a pretty heavy swipe at me, but it is a legitimate question because I am sure it has happened to all of us at one time or the other...
Heck - if a chick would reject me, she'd reject anyone
Hehe...
*sigh*
Just kidding...
help?
Spoomonkey